"In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood [sexual] victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest.
Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology… Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for… This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men."
— Lundy Bancroft (via harveyrspecter)

um what just happened to the notes bar

is tumblr changing things again?

Okay, I worked in direct marketing so I know how important it is to do whatever you can to get the customer to open the package, but come on. This is too much!! Especially you, postcode, I’m looking at you.

Okay, I worked in direct marketing so I know how important it is to do whatever you can to get the customer to open the package, but come on. This is too much!! Especially you, postcode, I’m looking at you.

To all the Tumblr users who tend to use tags very liberally:

thejadedkiwano:

Let’s play a game. Type the following words into your tags box, then post the first automatic tag that comes up:

  • you
  • also
  • what
  • when
  • why
  • how
  • look
  • because
  • never
this may be one of the greatest headlines I’ve ever read

this may be one of the greatest headlines I’ve ever read